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Memorial Day 2011

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April/May 2011

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July 2011 Pt. 1

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Meet Miss Personality

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a few more...

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BTW, the bubble picture looks SOOOOOO much like my mama, it's crazy!

July 4th, 2010

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Some words...

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Hi there! I have to post my pictures from my laptop now, since I can't get this computer to work again (picture-wise.)

1. Maren got up on the Harley with her Papa O. She wasn't the least bit afraid. She didn't flinch when he cranked the thing up. I sure did.

2. Our visit with Brian & Shannon and their daughters at the lake was fun. Maren went on her first boat ride (pontoon) and did pretty good for a one year old. She also went swimming in the lake. She didn't love that, but I think it was due to the life preserver. We ate and drank and had a good time.

3. We went to O'Hara's first cousin, Carol's wedding up in Asheville this past weekend. It was a really beautiful setting, Claxton Farm(s). There were rolling hills and cows and llamas and goats. The ceremony was held out in the open and the reception in a "barn." The food was great and everyone was friendly! It was good to see Kathy & Al. They got us a "villa" to stay in for the night. It had 2 bedrooms/2 baths, a kitchen, & den. PERFECT. Maren got her own room, I got to go to bed early, and O'Hara got to watch the game. Win-Win-Win situation!

We're headed to Pawleys for 2 WEEKS!!!!! on Friday. I can't wait.

more from the wedding...

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Carol Morse's wedding...Claxton Farm, Asheville, NC

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Biker Maren/Maren does Lake Murray

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Amish Country

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Absolutely beautiful. I accidentally got a shot ov an amish person. Total accident. They believe that photography=vanity, so I feel terrible. THe poor guy wet RUNNING to hide. I was just trying to get a pic of the incredible clothes line.
We had a great time on this trip. Maren had fun with her cousins and El, Jeff, Mom, & dad. Apparently she also enjoyed herself at Emily's HS graduation dinner. We missed her terribly.

Cory & Jennie's wedding was really fun. The hotel was great, company even better. I really enjoyed getting to meet/know both families. What a super nice group of people! Thanks for the hospitality!

Other people's kids...

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These are a couple from MANY great shots I got of some of the children who are a part of Cory & Jennie's family. ADORABLE children. Hope I'll get to pass along the pics to the families directly!

(made it exxxxxtra hard to be away from my girl!)

Pawleys..Memorial Day weekend

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Notice Dad's dinner beverage.

GOT IT WORKIN!

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A few over the past month! What a ham!!

So, It has been forever since I posted....

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But, I've been wanting to put up new pictures and my camera keeps shutting down my computer every time I attempt an upload. BOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
We are headed down to Pawleys today for Memorial Day weekend. So pumped up. Ready for some beach/family time.
A look back:

-weekend trip to Pawleys with friends Jay, Shannon & their son, Tanner- fun trip.
-joined the gym AND I've been going (pretty good, for me!)
-Maren's been enjoying the kid's care program at the gym
-had a GREAT time at Birdfest this year. Great music, old friends, good food (thanks to Joe,) fire, funny jokes, late night singing (thanks, Jamie!) Can't wait to do it again next year!
-spending time at the park, with the Foppe family, grilling out, getting some sun.
-O'Hara & I have been getting along great :)
-Maren is so funny, joking around, cutting up, learning so much. Can't get enough of her.

Overall, life is really good. Thanks be to God!

If I can get my camera to love my computer again, I'll get some freshies up of my girl.

Happy Memorial Day to all the brave Veterans who have spent their lives defending our freedom. Bless you!

Have fun & be safe!

ONE is so much fun!

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THe birthday girl had a great day! The family came over to celebrate with burgers, fries, and cupcakes!

At the beach...Easter week

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UH-OH

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We have child locks on our kitchen cabinets. Maren figured out that if you just pull REALLY hard over & over again, they'll open. This particular cabinet contains all of our household poison. Great. Back to the drawing board.

(Side note: why does she always look back at me when she's getting into trouble with a big 'ole grin??!!)

Cory & Jennie

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We helped host an engagement party for our friends Cory & Jennie. Their wedding is June 5th in Pennsylvania. Maren will stay with Ellen & Jeff for 3 NIGHTS. OMG. I am so upset. How will I make it??????????

I know it'll be a fun crowd...and neat for me & O to take a trip together (first one since our honeymoon!)

My child on a Barbie Jeep

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We went to Charleston a couple weekends ago to visit with Papa O & Gamma. Maren got to ride her very own Barbie Jeep for the first time. Of course, she couldn't operate the thing, but it was very cute anyhow. Notice how intense her face is in the pictures!

LUcknow Sunday continued...

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Mom & Dad, El, Jeff, Julia Chase, Parker, Me & O, Maren, and our dogs, Daisy, Marley, Puddin', & Herbie all went out to Lucknow for the day. We had a nice picnic lunch by some of the grape plants. We rode the golf cart around, messed around on the tractor, Dad, Jeff, O, and the kids burned a field. The dogs ran around LOVING being out there & FREE! We shot some guns at a can...all in all a great day.

Lucknow Sunday

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CHF 4

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Maren & I went out to the farm where Ellen rides her horse on Saturday. We had already had a VERY successful shopping outing and weren't ready to head home on such a pretty day.

It was so calm and peaceful being out there. The property was beautiful: hills, pastures, ponds, the works! Maren really enjoyed watching Ellen handle her horse and just being outside! ( So did I!) Can't wait to go back out there! Thanks, El.

CHF 3

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Maren watching Ellen ride Pony.

CHF 2

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Ellen with her horse, Pony. True Love.

Congaree Horse Farm

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A Word from SICKVILLE

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We have ALL been sick here at the Howard residence. It's been 8 days and I SURE HOPE IT WON'T BE 9!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have not left my house since Monday (and we only left then to take the doodle to the doc.) Good news, though: she's weighing in at 19lbs. 11 oz.! Go girl! She's already bigger than I was when I was a year old!

SNOW part 3

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Well, it snowed. It was awesome. 8 1/2 inches. 5th biggest snow on record for Cola town.

Maren could care less about it. We couldn't get her to smile for a snow picture for anything. What a little stinker! The Howards spent the night at the Burdens Friday night for a Sat. am snow delight! The kids had snowball fights with el, Jeff & dad. Mom, Mare & I prettymuch stayed indoors. I like to look. Cold wetness is really not my thing for more than about 10 minutes at a time.

Sat. afternoon O'Hara and I went to the Woodlands in Summerville. It was so nice. We had a delicious meal, a fireplace in our bedroom and a HUGE whirlpool tub. GREAT valentine's day gift, O'Hara! We will definitley be going there again.
The only downer about the trip was that I woke up in the middle of the night with a throw-up bug. UUUGGGHHH. So, needless to say it wasn't quite as romantic as Valentine's day could be.

Maren did well, once again, spending the night with her Nana. Man, I wish she would sleep that well at home!

I have been working on a few projects the past few weeks:

1. I got a sewing machine and have been learing a few things. I made Maren a sundress. I made a pillow for the nursey. I'm working on a couple of other things, too.

2. I am working on my bedroom...re-arranging, taking down art, putting up art, new lampshades, etc.

3. This darn computer!!!! I have been having a hard time understanding and working with my newly updated old desktop. Since the "big switch" from my laptop back to the desktop, I have struggled getting old files (photo, music, etc.) from the laptop to the desktop with what seems to be a nearly dud external hard drive. Boo. Anyway, good times in computer world. It has taken a LOT of time and MUCH patience on my part. Pat on back.

4. My health/diet. Another difficulty. O'Hara and I have made a bet called the "20 lb. showdown" where the winner gets $500 and a weekend away!! If O'Hara beats me I will just die.(Mainly because he gets to have 500 and weekends away anytime!!) So far, I am winning by 2 lbs. The bet ends May 28th. Good luck me! (Of course I want him to succeed, that will also be a reward for me!)

Boo bear is standing in place and taking steps to us, to a toy, to a piece of furniture. My bet is that by next week we'll have a wobbly walker. Just a mintue ago she just started walking across the room to O'Hara. I'm afraid!

SNOW part 2

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SNOW

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Yes, it has been a month.

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Time flies when you play Farmville in all of your free time. FOr those of you who don't know about this Facebook game, it is a virtual farming game that I am so addicted to it may be bad for my marriage and mothering. Anyway, for some reason it is relaxing to plow, plant, and harvest virtual fruits, veggies, and grains. It is so dumb that I can't really rationalize why I play the game so often. But I do and I don't plan on stopping.
So my main girl is almost 9 months old!!! (Sat.) She is a real scream these days. She cracks up all the time, which in turn cracks me up. She can get up the entire flight of steps in about 20 seconds. Scary. She's pulling up and cruising around furniture and walls. She's eating tons of new foods-and wants to feed HERSELF, thank you very much. I could not be more pleased with all of her accomplishments over the past month.
Christmas was great. It was a busy day, but we enjoyed all of the hustle/bustle and Maren was a trooper. She soaked up all the love and attention the day brought. She enjoyed the ribbons and wrapping paper the most.
Nana bought her a new crib and bumper pad, which came yesterday and it is beautiful. I ADORE it! Sweet to think that this crib will also convert into her "big girl" bed before we can blink.
So are you guys calling this new year "Twenty ten" or "Two thousand ten?" I vote for "10." Just wondering.
Heading down to Charleston tomorrow for Julie's girl party before the wedding (Feb. 6.) O'Hara will be putting Maren to bed for the first time ever tomorrow night. I'll update on how that goes!
I am pooped out for now, but will do my very best to post pictures and write more next week!

Big Girl Food!

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Yeah, that's right...my girl's eating broccoli, swiss cheese, and whole wheat pasta. And loving it.

We think it's so fun to explore the whole new world of whole foods with the baby! She's eaten everything we've given her so far. It's awesome. And it gives me extra time to do other stuff in the kitchen while she's in her highchair...SCORE!

Foppe-Howard Day

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Thanksgiving, Our Tree!

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Maren wears a dress; Santa Maren

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John Mayer

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And he writes pretty great music, too. The new album is an all-play.

Collage? Hope it works!

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Slacker Blogger

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Also, slacker picture uploader! I have new pictures on the camera, but have yet to upload. I'll do it tomorrow. I'm also gonna try and figure out how to upload video footage of the booger CRAWLING and PULLING UP! She's been mobile for 2 weeks now and it presents a whole new set of challenges! On the other hand, she sure is checking those milestones off the list one-by-one! We are proud.

I'm looking forward to the rest of 2009 sooooooo much. We are Pawleys bound next week for Thanksgiving with the Rickenbaker clan. It is always so much fun to spend time with the fam, fried turkey, super fattening casseroles, and my fave, the 7-layer caramel cake from Edenton. My mouth just watered.

The following weekend is our annual church retreat at Montreat. I am trying not to think too much about it until after the beach, though. With so many things to look forward to, it's hard to take it day-by-day!

This upcoming weekend is the charity crafts bazzar for Kathy's non-profit. I can't wait to see all the neat things that so many people have made with love and care for the aids orphans in Namibia.

All of the above warms my heart. Don't you just love cool/cold weather, babies, good food, the beach, the mountains, and wonderful family??????? Well, if you don't seek your nearest head doctor.

I miss you, Rachel!

Will post pics tomorrow!

6 months old, y'all.

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I just can't believe it. It's already been 6 months since this angel baby was born. And every day I love her more and every day I think it's impossible to love her more.

She's sitting up all by herself. She even pulled up (with only one arm) yesterday. A whole new kinda baby emerges...one who's curious and super active. Huh. I guess that doesn't really make her any different than since she was in my belly. Well, she's exactly the same; curious and very active.

She's sleeping 10-11 hours at night now. Except for every OTHER night lately when she wakes up and screams for 5 to 45 minutes. That is getting old. How long will she continue to do this 'til she realizes we're not coming in there to mess with her? I thought she would have figured it out by now!

Anyway, I've been a little dumpy lately, but hopefully that's due to hormone imbalance. We'll see.

Someone stole my bike out of mama's garage. That stinks. She bought me a new one, and I like it. Thanks so much, mama!
Wish we could catch the thief and my old bike, though. Sherlock Howard??? Since, Mom & Dad put new garage doors on their house. Good call, guys!

Looks like we're getting a camo golf cart. It should be cool. The Howards will be cruising around the neighborhood in the EZ-go. Look out Burden household. You may have Howard visitors more often due to the golf-cart cool factor.

Mom got a beautiful new sapphire & diamond ring for her birthday (drool) and so she's letting me borrow and wear her oh-so-lovely diamond right-hander. "I feel pretty, oh so pretty..."

We went to Charleston this past weekend for a visit with Pop Row (Papa O) and Gamma. It was fun. They have this thing called the magic bullet and it makes a mean frozen margarita. I could have had one too many of those guys. Yum! O'Hara & I went out to eat supper and on a bike ride without Mare bear and that was fun. I tried to watch the Carolina game, but fell asleep in the 3rd quarter thinking we may have had a shot. I was wrong. Overall, though, it was a nice weekend.

Booger got her shots yesterday. Doc says she's 16lbs. 12 oz., 25 in. long. 65% in weight, 40% in height, 70% in head size. She's short & tubby with a big head (brains,) just like daddy! (He said it first.) I just call it perfection.

My iPhone

2009-10-15T20:46:00.002-04:00

Well, I am updating this blog while in bed from my new, incredible iPhone. People. It is the best gadget
ever. No joke. It can do just about anything. I am so loving it.

Pix

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A couple of cute ones from mom's coolpix...

More good times at the beach...

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There were 18 adults and 2 babies in one house. It was really fun.

Maren in the car

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She's been spending a good bit of time in her carseat lately! We are headed back to Pawleys tomorrow for a big weekend with all of O'Hara's buddies. I think there will be around 17 people. Whoa! There will be a "quiet zone" on the top floor for Maren and Sam. Bopey's gonna come for Thurs. and Fri. nights, so that will good for me...to have someone else with a baby there who gets it.

I could hardly sleep last night thinking about all the people and food and laughter coming up!

A beautiful bride...

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We went down to the beach for Bopey & Gene's wedding. It was wonderful. The weather couldn't have been better for an outdoor ceremony and reception overlooking the inlet. As you can see, she looked amazing.

my 5-month-old!!!!!

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OK, so 30 or so to go...

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Well, she decided to cut another tooth on Monday. Who ever knew a 4-month-old with 2 teeth? Its been a tough few afternoons around here with Maren acting fussy and cranky due to the teething thing.
On the upswing, she's really taken to the bottle. She gets excited when she sees me making it and is gulping the thing down! Also, I took her to the drop-in today again and again she did great! NO tears! She just likes to hang with her friends! The past few nights have been better sleep-wise. She has not woken up much fussing, and she's slept 7 or 8 hours straight. Now, if I could just figure out how to make those hours between 10 and 5 or 6 am, that would be great. Now she goes to bed somewhere around 8. I just don't know how to keep her up when she's miserable and ready for bed!
Me & Maren went to visit Julie & Rhett the other evening. It was a nice visit...got to see Julie's wedding gown-gorgeous! Kathy & Al came into town and Kathy came over for a visit yesterday. She came bearing gifts...beautiful clothes for Maren! Then we also stopped in a new children's boutique and she got Maren ANOTHER cute outfit! We're spoiled.
Kathy & Al are coming over for supper tonight. Me & O are making Chicken Parm. It is pretty much jam up, people. I can't wait. I think we'll also open this bottle of red that's been sitting up in the rack for a year & 1/2.
O'Hara has joined a dove club and he'll be hunting Thursdays for a few weeks. That's where he is now. Mare bear is sleeping. I'm going to finish up painting the kitchen.

First tooth down, 31 or so to go!

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We had a great weekend at Pawleys. Maren cut her first tooth while we were on a walk on the beach. She was really good during the stay, and FINALLY is taking a bottle. She even took 2 from me today. Thank you, Jesus!

I got my hair cut just before we left town. It feels so much better. Also, Maren had her first experience at the drop-in nursery. She didn't cry and surprisingly, neither did I! It must have been good timing! I feel so free. I can go and do, she will be fine.

We're heading back down in 2 weekends for Bopey's wedding and then the following weekend for a friend weekend with O'Hara's buddies and their sig. others. Should be really fun. Maren will be going with us, but I still think I'll get to hang out some, too!

Where are the teeth?

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She's drooling and chewing and putting everything in her mouth, but no sign of teeth yet. She's got tough little jaws, though. It hurts if she gets your finger in her mouth! (Imagine me breastfeeding!) Ouch!

She won't take a bottle. I want her to take it now and she won't do it. Isn't that something? I FINALLY am ready to make the switch and she pitches a fit!

Wednesday will be her first visit to a nursery--- the drop-in at Eastminster. I have to get my hair cut.
I am upset about it. But it has to be done. I'll fill you in on how that all goes down.

This past weekend I stayed at mom & dad's. O'Hara went to Charleston and I was afraid to stay alone. It was a nice time and it sure is great to not have to really pack anything to go over there! There's already a crib, diapers, wipes, toys, baby towels & washcloths, clothes, a swing, highchair, meds, pacis, bottles, formula, baby food, bowls, spoons, cereal....I could really go on and on! Mom just buys what I buy so she'll have it all at her house, too. (She also has some stuff from Chasie & Parker.) It's wonderful!

This upcoming weekend we are headed to Pawleys for Labor Day. I am excited because Maren will likely enjoy this visit more than the last times. We will be able to take her out on the beach a little more. Yay!

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Listening to David play the guitar! She loves this! One day a couple of weeks ago, David played a Phish song called "Sleep" and she fell asleep while listening. It was so cute.

She's starting to drool a bunch!

First time in a highchair. She looks so tiny in it! But she did great and played while we ate.

All dressed up for church!

Baby gear PART 2

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The Summer Infant HANDHELD Video Moniter. Need I say more? I really don't know how people survived with just sound on these things. This thing gives me SO MUCH PEACE OF MIND. I can even zoom in on her chest or mouth. It can move around the room. It has night vision. You can adjust the volume and brightness. I love it.

Homedics Sound Machine. Another genius invention. It has 6 settings, but the waterfall and the rain block out the most background noise. I cut it on and cut it up. She sleeps. We watch TV. BTW, be sure and put some black electrical tape over the lights on these gadgets because somehow they get stimulated by them! PITCH black is best for baby.

This picture sums up 2 different works of greatness. 1. The bubble. (or any other one-piece outfit that snaps at the bottom.) what's great about it is that it doesn't get all bunched up when you're holding or playing with the baby, and there's such easy diapering access. I don't really like to put Maren in any other stuff, unless it's a onesie with some really cute shorts or skirt over (hints the lack of bunching issue.) 2. Prettymuch anything Kissy Kissy. 100% pima cotton and SO cute clothes. My favorite brand. Buyer beware: Kissy Kissy runs small. If your baby is 0-3 months old and is in the 50th percentile for height and weight, she'll be wearing 3-6 mo. stuff.)

Last for tonight, the one-piece footed, zippered pajamas. Keeps toesies warm, easier to get on at night after the bath when you have to be quick for your fussy, hungry baby. It really does cut that time after bath/before nighttime feeding. I do like the snap nighties too, (and they usually come in cuter designs) but the zipper ease wins.

Goodnight for now!

My favorite baby gear so far PART 1

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In no particular order, here are things that I think are great. I wish someone could have told me this stuff before I (and others) spent a fortune on other stuff!

3 Marthas burp cloths. They are pricey. They are great. They wash up to be the softest thing ev. And, they're perfect for an outing, as they are particularly cute!

Huggies Diapers. I am a big fan. I was a Pampers girl until I started to notice my child kept getting diaper rashes. Those Pampers were not absorbing the way the Huggies do. So long Pampers.

Lansinoh breast pads. Obviously, no need to read it you aren't breastfeeding. But, if you are, there really is no better option here. I have tried Gerber and Medela brands and they are bulkier and crinklier. (And also not as easy to open up and stick in your bra.)

The swaddling blanket. Depending on when you have a 0-3 month old, you can get these in thin cotton or flannel! I had both. The key is to get really big ones so you can fold them up good and really swaddle tightly. (Especially if you have a wiggle worm like I do!) This was a true lifesaver for us for the first 3 months solid. Also, that video, "The Happiest Baby on the Block" is no joke. Check it out.

Recent pictures

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After Maren's Baptism

David & his girlfriend, Elizabeth Anne

At Pawleys...the whole clan

El & Jeff on their cruise in Alaska

Updated pictures just for you, Rachel!

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I took all these pictures last night.

Maren in her Christening gown

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Maren's friends

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Maren & Harlyn

Daniel & Maren

Sam at our house

These are all 2009 babies and all are April except Daniel! So cute!

Nana's Maren

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I think Nana's got a new friend.

I am the only one awake in my house.

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my little angel baby

I have had the least amount of sleep and they are the ones sleeping!! I'm about to hit the hay, though.

I've been feeling a little down the past few days, and ready for it to pass.

There have been so many changes in my life and my hormones, that it's not shocking I guess.

Some things I feel good about:

-my family...all of em.

-getting some sleep

-having a safe car

-living in a great neighborhood

-feeling comfortable in my church

Some things I am working on:

-living a more balanced life

-practicing patience and faith

-not cussing or drinking too much

-being nicer to O'Hara

Some things I am struggling with:

-finding balance

-figuring out how much "me time" is appropriate (if any) right now

-being away from Maren--even for short periods of time. (even though I think I want a break sometimes)

-friend relationships. I could go on and on about this one, but won't. It's been hard, though.

Next post will be happier!

Night, y'all!

Picasa 3 and comments

2009-07-28T20:58:00.002-04:00

Y'all.

Picasa 3 is awesome. If you don't have it, download it for free and manage your pics this way. It's so cinchy.

Also, I enjoy reading comments from you guys, so comment away. Otherwise, I'll think I'm just writing for myself. (Which, lets be honest, I basically am!)

P.S. Maren has slept 8 1/2 to 9 1/2 hours the past 3 nights! Yes!

One more thing...

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O'Hara got me a bomb-dig-ity new camera for my birthday. I never even knew I wanted a nice camera until I had this angel baby. Anyway, it's awesome and I take WAY too many pictures now. I have lots to learn!
YES!!! FINALLY I have a hobby. So what do you think about that, O'Hara?? Look out bank account. Here I come!

Poop

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The child decided to poop on her own! TWICE today!! YAY MAREN!!! Let's hope this is a trend!

huh?

2009-07-24T22:11:00.001-04:00

Now that she fits into the bumbo, we haven't decided if she likes to sit there or not. Most times, NOT.

Can't believe I'm still awake, but...

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Y'ALL!!!!!!!!!

Maren played with a toy today. She is a real person.

She looked at the toy, and actively reached for it with one hand. OVER AND OVER AGAIN. So it wasn't just floundering arm stuff.

She grabbed at it and was so intense about the whole thing. O and I were both in the car when it happened and could hardly believe it.

It may seem silly to see this act as such a huge milestone, but just wait until I start posting about when the child decides to poop on her own.

Maren's Baptism Pictures

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She didn't scream and cry, y'all!! It was a wonderful day, with so many family members there to show love and support. We are so blessed!

FAT is relative, right?

2009-07-24T21:43:00.006-04:00

I was just reflecting on a time in my life when I was fat. Well, anyway, I thought I was fat. I was about 115 lbs.

Then, A few years later, I thought I was fat again. At about 120, I just wished so much that I could go back in time and appreciate when I thought I was fat a 115. How great 115 would be. How could I EVER think that was fat?

Then I got fat.

I gained tons of weight (and mysteriously, too...not really much diet or lifestyle change) around my 23rd birthday. And it stuck. I was nearing 160lbs, people. And for those of you who don't know, I am only about 5 feet tall.

Anyway, I wished so much that I could get down to a size 8. That's all I wanted.

So years later, I did. In fact, currently, I am a size 8. (But I have to add that some shorts are still 10s and a couple dresses are 12s...let's not forget I am a breastfeeding new mama!!!!!!)

Anyway, sometimes you've just got to give yourself a break.

I think that I'll always be able to find things about my body to pick at and dislike. But what I don't do enough of is recognize what great things my body has accomplished. And so has yours.

Whether you've climbed a mountain, overcome an illness, made a baby, survived indulgences....whatever...you've done some great things with that body you'll always find unattractive in some ways!

I hope to never be anywhere near 160 again (unless I am carrying another human being.)
And I plan on not.
But I still love myself and my flabby, saggy body! It's been places, people!

Pawleys--4th of July 2009

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Our beach vacation was wonderful. I turned 30 on the first day of our stay and the first 2 weeks of 30 could not have been better!

Rachel came and stayed for a few nights and it was great getting to hang out and pretend that she doesn't live clear across the country.

I THINK I have mastered the art of 2 drinks. To be honest, I'd like to have more sometimes, but it just is plain not worth it to feel bad the next day. Seriously. Who has time for a hangover? Cause I sure don't. Anyway, my new drink is a malibu just like my mama. Yummy. Malibu rum, oj, cran, and some real fruit on top. Can't beat it.

My baby was great. She is sleeping anywhere from 6-8 hours a night. It makes my days so much easier with the rest I get.

I'm kinda pooped out right now, so I'll blog more about the trip later. Also, Maren was baptised yesterday and I have lots of pictures and such to post as well.

JULY 2009 iX

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JULY 2009 VIII

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JULY 2009 VII

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FUNNY FACES

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JULY 2009 VI

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JULY 2009 V

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JULY 2009 IV

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JULY 2009 III

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JULY 2009 II

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JULY 2009 I

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More Charleston...

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Good Times in Charleston

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"Sherlock Howard"

2009-06-09T21:24:00.002-04:00

A quick update on the 4-wheeler mess:

OF ALL PEOPLE, O'Hara sees the guy who swindled him at a stoplight out off of Platt Springs Rd. and follows him 20 miles while on the horn with the police and gets him arrested. WHAT!?!! Isn't that awesome?!!! He was so proud of himself...and rightly so!

So mom called him Sherlock Howard. I thought that was pretty cute.

Still no word on the vehicle, but atleast the guy's been caught, right?!!

Just another day in the life.

Interesting tidbit

2009-06-09T21:21:00.002-04:00

Well, if you were wondering what NOT to do when checking a baby's diaper for poop, let me just tell you.
1. don't try and see if there's poop in the dark.
2. don't stick you finger in there to check.
and finally,
3. DO NOT FOR ANY REASON then smell your finger-for you MAY get poop on your nose. Just sayin.

WHAT A FACE!

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Now try and tell me that's not about the most kissable face & neck you ever did see!!
See? I knew you couldn't.

It's hard to post pics AND write!

2009-06-01T10:24:00.003-04:00

I think things are getting a little easier. Wait. Did I just type that? Anyway, the angel is sleeping 6 to 61/2 hours each night now. It's wonderful.

We're working on a little schedule. I hope it takes.

She's around 11 lbs. now, and chubbing up pretty good. I love it. I love those little chunks under her neck and her little thighs!! Who gets tired of that?

She still wants to eat about every 2 hours during the day. That is a bit exhausting, but whatever makes her happy.

The LONG beach weekend was awesome. I cannot wait to get back down there. It really is so nice to have all the fam around. And also, to have help during the day with the little one. I came home so refreshed. And it didn't hurt that the weather was absolutely PERFECT, (sunny, breezy and low 80's!!)

This is mom's last week of school for the summer and I am counting down the days. We're gonna have a great time this summer. She's such a baby person, and Maren crying or whatever does not frazzle her in the least. GOOD TO HAVE AROUND! Not just for that, but it IS wonderful for me!

Kathy & Al came over last night to eat supper and see Maren. We had a good time. I still wish they were here even more. Kathy is also a bit of a Maren fan!!

I am FINALLY getting my hair done tonight. It has been 2 1/2 months. Too long, if you were wondering. I have been starting to look like frump mom big time.

6-week checkup for me tomorrow, photo portrait session for our fam wed., and who knows what else. It's nice to have things to look forward to. Just getting out of the house is an adventure lately!

Mom got us a reclining glider chair from Baby Furniture Plus for my birthday. Maren loves rocking and we love reclining, so perfect fit! It'll be 4 weeks until it arrives, since we got to pick the fabric. Another thing to look forward to. THANKS SO MUCH, MAMA!!!

Another BIG BIG thanks to Kathy and AL for our United Healthcare. We got the hospital bill and it is SO do-able. What a financial relief!!

Our den is getting a makeover, but not sure when. I'll update about that later.

O'Hara sold his 4-wheeler. Except the guy wrote a fraudulent cashiers check, so actually, the guy ripped us off and stole our 4-wheeler. $4700. Insurance will only pay $3000 (due to $1000 deductible.) So that's real sucky, but atleast it was insured. Why do people steal like that? We need the money, too, brother! Why do you think we were selling the dang thing in the first place!
So, that was a big mess last week.

But I'm still in a good mood due to the occasional glass of wine and my sweet baby giving ME the gift of night-time sleep!

Later skaters!

More...

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More good times at Pawleys/Maren smiles!

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Pawleys...

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More...

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Memorial Day Weekend Part 1

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Good times in Maren World

2009-05-19T14:20:00.000-04:00

SO uncomfortable!

Check out my curls, people!
Bet you can't guess who my daddy is!

I LOVE all these songs and lights and colors! I'm probably gonna be a genius.

Anyway, I am cured of my "I forget to take pictures" thing. Can you tell?

We're heading to Pawleys with the babe for her first beach trip ever. It is so exciting! And I'm glad that all the family will be there...many arms to hold her when she screams!!!

Hope the weather is nice!

BTW, it has taken me 6 hours so far to pack for the trip tomorrow and I am nowhere NEAR through. Ellen always said it was a pain b/c of all the stuff you have to pack, but I never realized what she meant until now. No wonder they just bought 2 of a lot of things. Good call!

The Stinker

2009-05-19T14:09:00.000-04:00

The child has gas like you would not believe. And she makes an "O" face when she's about to let it rip (unless, of course she is screaming in pain!)

I promise she's not always asleep!

2009-05-08T12:28:00.000-04:00

But heavens, she's so sweet when she's sleepin!

Sorry I haven't posted in so long. It is amazing how much time passes so quickly. I want to press pause and just stew in these moments with O and the baby. She's already 3 weeks old!

I've never been more exhausted or more overjoyed in my life.

Maren Michelle Howard

2009-04-22T19:27:00.000-04:00

She's here!!! Maren was born April 16, 2009 at 2:13 pm at Lexington Medical Center. She was 7lbs, 5oz. and 19.75 inches long. O'Hara and I are overjoyed. Praise God for such a healthy, wonderful child!!!!

I'm tired, y'all

2009-04-04T16:00:00.006-04:00

...though you may not be able to tell from this picture! Check out the size of that arm! Whoa! And ready to chow down.

Anyway, I am feeling different the past day or two: cold, heartburny, SO worn out! I keep thinking of things that need to be done. This last bit of pregnancy is making me a crazy lady.

Another Update

2009-04-01T09:27:00.002-04:00

They're gonna induce on the 16th of this month if the baby hasn't come yet. That's pretty great news for a mama-in-waiting (to have an end-date!) 2 weeks, 2 days max!

My Main Squeeze

2009-03-23T09:56:00.002-04:00

Just want to take a moment and appreciate my man. He worked so hard this past weekend on projects around the house and out in the yard! And I don't even think he's done. Mom says he's "nesting" with me. But he has just been wonderful.
I was watching Joel Osteen last night (we watch/listen a lot of times at night as we're going to sleep) and the message was about the 86,400 seconds that is God's gift to each one of us everyday. And I'm not wasting 'em today by being negative! I love and appreciate my husband!

At last...

2009-03-19T11:44:00.003-04:00

She has a first name that O'Hara says we can share. Maren. So our little booger will be called Maren (among other things, I'm sure!) Maren Howard. That's right. No middle name yet. O'Hara is going to decide the middle name. NOT on his own, mind you. He will be picking from a list of names we complied TOGETHER. So, I'll fill you in when we're all squared away with that whole thing.

She is getting the hiccups ALL the time now. Her activity level remains HIGH. I researched online and "they" say that means I have a healthy placenta. Good. 'Cause although my thighs are a nice "healthy" size, I assure you the activity there did not come from carrots and grean beans.

We had supper with Kathy & Al last night in Lexington. Olive Garden takeout. DE-lish. I'm glad they'll be up here more in the next month with the baby coming and all!

I'm looking forward to 4 things coming up:
1) A WELL overdue hair apt. next Tues. with Michelle. At the moment, my hair is a nice combination of brown, caramel, and blonde at certain ends. It's tragic. Work your magic, Michelle.
2) At the doc next Thurs. they're gonna check me for action. I don't expect action, but it would be cool if there was some progress down there!
3) Julia Chase's 7th birthday party next Sat. It's a glitz & glam party...with makeup and nails, glitter, temp. hair color & tattoos, etc. Should be awesome.
4) A baby shower for us! Linda is hosting a shower next Sun. afternoon and it should be plenty of fun. I don't get to see the Sloans as often as I'd like to! Thanks, Linda! Can't wait!

Our little booger

2009-02-26T15:09:00.002-05:00

She's getting big! We had an ultrasound apt. today and doc says she weighs 4.2 lbs!! It was so cool to see her moving around and yawning and blinking and sucking on her hands! We are SO EXCITED!!!!!!
SO this whole "naming the baby" thing is out of control. We have FINALLY come up with her first name(it was not an easy task) and now cannot agree on a middle name. Will someone tell my husband that the middle name is not that important because she'll never be called by it and then she'll likely drop it when she gets older and married anyway! So, for some reason O'Hara doesn't want us to tell her name yet. Maybe I can talk him into it in the next couple of weeks...especially if we can decide on a middle name!
It has been forever since I wrote on this blog. I wish I could say that I've been terribly busy, but that's just not the case. I'm pretty boring. I got my new camera and have taken about 5 pictures. None of them are of anything cool.
We are headed back down to Charleston this weekend to visit with friends and for me to attend Mindy's bridal shower. Last weekend was Dana & Vince's honeymoon shower at Guy & Renee's house, and we had a lot of fun. Even though I am such a homebody, it felt good to get out and hang with buddies and feel like a regular person...not just a pregnant person. It will be nice to have the baby and a nice glass of wine...and maybe 30 less lbs...hey, why not?
I can't believe that it's almost March already. Julia Chase will be 7 years old and then in April Parker will be 3!! David Jr. will be 27, our marriage will be 1 and we're having a baby! One day soon I'll post some belly pictures. It's getting big!

So...

2009-01-09T15:26:00.002-05:00

I ordered a new camera and can't wait for it to arrive! Then, there will be no excuses for not having pictures on my blog. BTW, amazon.com is great. Not only did I order the camera, but also a case for it, a memory card, a 2009 engagment calendar, and a childbirthing DVD. This could end up being a problem, huh!
It was a good week-pretty low-key, as usual. My belly is bigger every day. I can't stop eating. The baby is kicking me up really high now. We don't have anything special planned for the weekend. So, that's all I've got. I swear I would write more if there was more on my mind.

December 2008-The end

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Last day of the year! And what a year it has been. In 2008, I got married, traveled to the US Virgin Islands, bought a house, got pregnant, I guess I could continue with other firsts, but isn't that about enough for one year?? It has been wonderful.

Christmas was great. We had a perfect day...starting at the Burden's, on to mom & dad's, then to Precious', and finally home to host a supper for O'Hara's family. We made a pretty good lasagna. Anyway, everyone was especially generous with us this year. We have accumulated many, many baby things including clothing, shoes, bedding, diapers, wall art, and blankets. I'm starting to think that this baby will not want for much! Santa also brought me a new Coach bag, which is awesome. It smells so good.

I finally took down all the decorations this week. Our house looks so bare now. But not for long. There is about to be a bunch of baby stuff all over the place, so I better enjoy the space for now. Tonight O'Hara and I plan on going to a movie and he's gonna cook me that delicious pasta dish with the turkey bacon in it. I can't wait. It'll be my first New Year's with out champagne in many years! I think I may like the pasta better!

Resolutions and such for 2009:

1. Take more pictures!!! I always wish I had more. I can never remember to take them. Surely, baby will cure me of this.

2. Cut out the cussing. I am not a big cusser or anything, but sometimes I just bust. I certainly do not want to present myself as one with a foul mouth.

3. In Sunday school last week we talked about how everyone makes resolutions that have to do with oneself. So, the goal is to do something for others instead. I'm not sure what gifts I have to share just yet, so I'm gonna have to pray on this one.

Everyone be safe and have a blast this New Year's Eve!

December 2008-The beginning

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I don't really know how to take pictures like this...hints the bad lighting from the flash.
A nativity scene

Santa hanging loose in the kitchen

The dining room looks prettier than this shows

The only year O & I will have solo stockings on this mantle!!

Our pretty little tree

Hey guys. Thought I'd post some pictures of the house decorated for Christmas.

We went to Montreat this past weekend. It was neat for me and O to have that "sleep in the same room" right-of-passage this year. We pushed the beds together to make the room cozy, but had separate sheets, so whatever! It was a fun time.

I enjoyed the lesson on "punctuation" in our lives: What are your exclamation marks? Your question marks? Your periods? Your ...'s?? I've been thinking about that this week. I think sometimes it's hard to trust in the Lord have the faith it takes to rid ourselves of the question marks, meanwhile showing exclamation for all His greatness. Let's not forget what this holiday and season of advent is all about.

This baby girl is kicking me like you wouldn't believe (unless, of course you've had children and know exactly what I'm talking about. ) Each day I am getting more and more excited about her and our family and what it all means. I am so full of emotion I could burst. We really are so blessed to have all that we do. O'Hara and I were talking about what we want for Christmas this year. Have we already started to grow up? Because we both wanted something for the baby. I have never felt closer to my husband.

Thanksgiving holidays 2008

2008-12-01T09:13:00.002-05:00

We left for Pawleys on Wed. lunchtime. It was a nice drive down. We had both our dogs and one puppy along for the trip. Mom, Precious, James, Chasie, & Parker were down already and later that evening Ellen & Jeff and Tom, Cindy, James, & Thomas arrived. We ate and talked and went to bed!
Thanksgiving was a GREAT day! Rick & Fran, Christina, and Gene, Addison & Logan joined us. The puppy we call "Sassy" has a new name..."Abby." Ad & Gene decided they are gonna take the pup on Wed. We are happy for them and glad we will get to see her as she grows!
Anyway, Gene fried 2 turkeys and we all chipped in and made a dish or two. A fabulous meal! The weather was wonderful. Some of us ate on the front porch and watched the waves and the dolphins!! Everyone napped and hung out all day. Friday the girls went shopping in Myrtle beach (not me...I shopped around Pawleys.) The guys went to the hardware store, and then we all ate some more and watched movies! (We also played a little Wii.) We woke up Sat. morning early and got on the road at 8am. We made it to Lexington (to visit with Kathy & Al) just in time for Carolina kick-off. Terrible game, but great company! Denise, Jerry & Kaitlyn were also there. We did some more eating and talking. What else is there?? It was fun.
Yesterday, I skipped church and worked on Christmas decorating. Mom & I went to eat lunch and shopped for a few hours and got some beautiful things for our house!!! Then O & I went to eat over at mom & dad's house for supper. Another great day. Today we plan on getting our Christmas tree. I am excited. I can't wait to have all the house all decorated and the clutter in the attic!!! Happy December yall!

A quickie

2008-11-25T11:08:00.002-05:00

We're headed to Pawleys tomorrow and I am so excited to get down there! Last year, I didn't get to see ANY family. Our Thanksgiving was in Edenton, NC, so we decided to have dinner with O'Hara's family here in Columbia. But then at the last minute I got a UTI and was in the bed:( So this year, I'm really looking forward to seeing everybody...including O's family when we get back on Sat.
FYI, for those of you who don't know yet, we are having a little girl! So much for a mama's intuition, right? Hahaha! We'll have another ultrasound on Dec. 2 to confirm it, but there was NO PENIS on the last one, so we're pretty sure that means girl. O & I have been working on a name list. Good thing we found out ahead of time. I have a feeling it's gonna take a while to name her. And by the way, she is a very active girl! She barely stops kicking and rolling around. So neat.
I'll write again after the holiday. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!